Lawyer by day, poet by night: the story of Demonica D. Gladney

In April 2023 Demonica D. Gladney, a tall, charismatic, electric woman wearing pink and bedazzled earrings with a matching necklace waltzed into Houston’s Young Library ready to awe her observers with words of motivation, and most importantly, “a word from the Lord.” Shoulder-length curls hugged her face as she read a selected an exclusive poem from her newest release, My Journey: Poetic Reflections Inspired By Faith. One poem entitled “A Heart of Gold”, is about her mother’s passing and is a sentimental and telling piece of art. “I just knew I needed to add that piece in my book,” Ms. Gladney shared when speaking on this poem. “I kept feeling like something was missing. I had already been writing and working on the book for five years and I was writing the entire time. Then I realized I had never spoke about my mom, so I did just that.” At the end of her meet and greet, all occupants were inspired and uplifted at how superb Ms. Gladney’s poetry skills remained throughout the tumultuous times she had processing her mother’s death. With diamond-studded heels, she effortlessly walked around the room, confident in her message and the words she fed her audience as she gave them a sneak peek into her mind. At first glance, Ms. Gladney is an aura of bright light who made an effort to help as many people around her shine as bright as they can. Usually, there aren’t many lawyer and poet careers happening simultaneously in the world. But when it comes to Ms. Gladney, she fully believes that ‘to whom much is given much is required’, so her nights are sometimes long fitting in more words to meet her quotas, and her days are most times longer, working as a senior council for ExxonMobil for 30 years. “I believe that it’s important to take care of the things that one is blessed with, so I make sure I make time for my writing like I make time for my career as a lawyer.”

Lawyer by day

At the age of seventeen, she was involved in an accident with a drunk driver. This accident left her disfigured, unable to speak, and self-conscious about her appearance. “I couldn’t even talk in front of people. I was devastated. I was originally going to school to be a lawyer.” The most surprising twist of the hit and run was that the driver attempted to sue her for 1 million dollars. “I remember being in disgust. I went home and told my mother that I’m going to become a lawyer. I couldn’t believe other people were being treated like this just because they couldn’t understand the law.” After having to defend herself against the drunk driver who almost fatally injured her, she found herself fully immersed in the world of law; getting her LSAT, and then receiving her Bachelors of Science in Criminal Justice, cum laude from Lamar University in Houston, Texas, her native city. After furthering her education and receiving a Doctor of Jurisprudence, cum laude from the University of Houston Law Center, she began her career as a lawyer as a Briefing Attorney for the Texas Fourteenth Court of Appeals in Houston. This led to her becoming the President of the Houston Lawyers Association and winning numerous awards for her diligent work in legal service, including the National Bar Association Distinguished Scroll of Women Award, Top 30 Influential Women in Houston, the Top 50 Black Attorneys in Houston (Super Attorney Award), the U of H Black Alumni Association’s Distinguished Alumni Award, and the NAACP Award for Legal Excellence.

Poet by night

Ms. Gladney is also a strong proponent for giving back to communities less fortunate and serving with a loving heart. She still does pro bono work as a lawyer and was the former Pro Bono Coordinator at ExxonMobil. But these aren’t even the full list of detailed and tedious accomplishments Ms. Gladney has achieved throughout her 30 years as a lawyer. “In my world, I have to be very diligent and I love that. I am a very organized person. I can organize a document that is already organized. So when it came to writing my books, I learned a lot of lessons that just began to transfer over from my career to my book writing and publishing processes.”

Ms. Gladney believes it is important to be involved in the learning process when it came to self-publishing. This is apparent in her choices to associate herself with a community of people who are dedicated to the craft of writing. These communities being the Academy of American Poets, Association of Publishers for Special Sales, Christian Indie Publishing Association and the Small Publishers, Artists and Writers Network. “I made it a mandatory decision to make sure I got into groups of people that will help me grow to be a better writer,” she shared. Ms. Gladney hires a cover art designer as well as someone to help format the book for printing. “The first time I had a book ready to publish, the publishing company stole my book and never gave it back,” she shared reflecting on her first book. “I learned when they stole my book that I need to make sure I do not give anyone full access to the vision that God has given me. I decided then to get into knowing how to publish my own books.” Since then, Ms. Gladney has been solely involved in all four of her books, making sure that she does all the work involved in distributing her books. She has won many awards for her literary work, such as the i10-Media Influential Award for Authors and even won the Houston Favorite Author Award. When it comes to her writing process, she makes sure she writes down every single detail that comes to her in an organized manila folder, making sure all of her ideas are ready for her to piece together once the time comes for her to write her book. “That’s my process with all of my books, because I love being organized. I have to be, since I am a lawyer. I make sure that I have everything lined up and ready to go.” Ms. Gladney has made it an effort to have a hard work ethic, determination, and persistence when it comes to balancing her world as a writer. She makes sure that her books are released when she feels they are ready to be released. “My writing comes by inspiration, because I want the writing to be anointed and to have a purpose to whom it’s supposed to reach. This is why I give the books the extra time that the books need.” Currently, Ms. Gladney is working on a book on self-publishing so she can teach others how to publish their own books like she has learned to do. All of Ms. Gladney’s books can be found here.

Leaving Neverland revisited: Was the King of Pop a ‘pedophile’?

I’ll give you the good news first. You can keep your MJ gear and all your highly valuable albums and DVDs (if you have them anyway), including that 2010 Wii game that has not even depreciated in monetary value (but actually ended up going up) or Jackson’s 1988 copy of his one and only autobiography (I wish I had kept mine. But at the time of the publication of this article I just ordered it again.) Because the good news is that Michael Jackson was never and will never be a child molestor, child abuser, or any type of monster related to a category like that. Contrary to popular belief, including the release of the dramatically constructed documentary by Dan Reed and ex-‘friends’ of Jackson, Wade Robson and James Safechuck, Leaving Neverland, I believe it’s important to shout this truth to the mountain tops, especially since Jackson is no longer here to defend himself from the atrocious mistruths the mainstream media and these two men are throwing at him.

When I got home today from doing some errands, a coworker of mine who knows I like Michael Jackson, sent me a screenshot of this article. She was letting me know that the sexual allegations case filed by Safechuck and Robson would be reopened. I already knew this, but because of my lack of knowledge about the court system, I wasn’t able to adequately text her back why these cases were being opened. One of her wuestions to me was, “If MJ didn’t do it, then why is the case being opened again?” Because I am unable to explain while sounding eloquent, in case you’re curious, Charles Thomson is a legal correspondent for the MJCast podcast (and in my opinion an excellent example of what an investigative journalist is supposed to be doing) did a good job explaining everything in their recent episode here.)

But in this post, I won’t be discussing Robson and Safechuck’s allegations in full detail. All I can say about them is that my opinion in my 2022 update at the bottom of my Leaving Neverland review has changed permanently. What I’d like to share with you the extensive list of what seemed like bad luck that seemed to plagued Jackson. (Perhaps maybe in the future I will expound on the 2004 and 2013 allegations,.) Today, I’d like to take a blast to the past and discuss Michael’s very first allegation from 1993, because I believe this first allegation is the beginning claim that helped ricochet the latter two copycat claims. I want to set the scene of the key characters and how they were able to score a good $20 off a man against his better judgement and will, which is exactly what the accessors wanted. I will do my absolute best to link all sources at the end of this post for those interested in further research.

Evan Chandler: “It will be a massacre if I don’t get what I want.”

In May of 1992, Mr. Jackson’s car broke down while he was driving down a street in Los Angeles. An employee at Rent-A-Wreck spotted him stranded in the street and offered to bring him a car. When Dave Schwartz, the owner of Rent-A-Wreck discovered that THE Mr. Jackson was in the vicinity, he immediately called his wife, June Schwartz, and told her to bring her son and daughter to meet him. Her son at the time was a 12-year-old Jordan Chandler, who was a huge Michael Jackson fan. She then gave Mr. Jackson their home number. In the employee’s account, she noted that “The mom seemed to be forcing the boy on [Michael],” and that “he felt like he owed the boy something, and that’s when it all started.” So, you can see why Jackson felt vulnerable and quite embarrassed to have your car broken down and stranded in the street. My car has never broken down in the middle of the street, but I know I’ve had to pull over before and that alone was embarrassing seeing the cars just drift past me. I can’t imagine how embarrassed Jackson felt and probably felt obligated to be open since he had a sweet spot for children.

Needless to say, Jackson, the Schwartzs, Jordan and his sister begin a relationship. They travelled to his house, he goes to theirs. The children and parents play at his castle-sized Neverland mansion, and Jackson enjoys the simplicity and normalcy that comes with being at a house doing chores and playing video games with the children. They had sleepovers, travelled the world together, and Jackson enjoyed the sense of family and friendship he got from them. In between all of this was Evan Chandler, a failed dentist who wanted to be a writer. He had divorced June in 1985 and had already been remarried by the time he met Jackson in 1992 with two small children with his second wife. He initially liked Jackson and suggested to him to build a new home for him so Jackson could come and stay at his house (this was a serious request.) He began bragging about his relationship with Mr. Jackson with coworkers and associates. However, Chandler began feeling jealous of his son’s relationship with the singer and his ex-wife, which then leads to the next turn of sad and dramatic events.

Aware of Chandler’s sketchy behavior, Jackson began distancing himself abruptly. This is when Chandler’s mind wandered with wild ideas to “Get what he wanted”, as he revealed in a phone call with Dave Schwartz that he secretly recorded. “It’s already set,” Chandler began mentioning to Schwartz. “There are other people involved that are waiting for my phone call that are in certain positions. I’ve paid them to do it. Everything’s going according to a certain plan that isn’t just mine. Once I make that phone call, this guy [his attorney, Barry K. Rothman, presumably] is going to destroy everybody in sight in any devious, nasty, cruel way that he can do it. And I’ve given him full authority to do that.” What made Chandler so hungry to destroy Michael’s career and reputation? Well, it was revealed that Chandler wanted money. In a meeting recorded by Anthony Pellicano, Jackson’s lawyer and Barry Rothman (Chandler’s lawyer) and Chandler himself, Chandler read a letter to Jackson asking for $20 million for a movie deal (for what movie? I have no idea nor do I care.) Pellicano then shared that at the end of the meeting, Chandler pointed his finger at Jackson and said, “I’m going to ruin you.”

For the nuances of the case, I encourage you to read and do further research, and click on the links below this article that I will provide. But while this meeting took place outside of public knowledge, Jordan, around 13 at the time, denied profusely all the allegations of sexual abuse made by his father. It is needless to say that Jackson’s team rejected Chandler’s request. The reason why I point Evan as the key character, because Jorden denied the claims until a visit happened between his father and an anesthesiologist his dentist office that was the result of a perfect and precise planned extortion attempt.

In the presence of Mark Torbiner, Chandler gave his son the controversial drug sodium amytal, known as a truth serum in the 1980s, despite this claim being reported as false. (Dr. John Yagiela, the coordinator of the anesthesia and pain control department of UCLA’s school of dentistry, added at the time to Mary Fisher’s 1994 article about the allegations that “It’s unusual for it to be used [for pulling a tooth]. It makes no sense when better, safer alternatives are available. It would not be my choice.” After this dental operation, the child was sent to a psychiatrist and spoke for the first time of these sexual allegations against Jackson. Now, keep in mind Chandler’s words to his ex-wife’s then husband at the time of this whole mess. “If I go through with this, I win big-time. There’s no way I lose. I’ve checked that inside out. I will get everything I want, and they will be destroyed forever. June will lose [custody of the son]…and Michael’s career will be over.” Schwartz asked if he cared how this would effect Jordan, he responded swiftly and without hesitation: “That’s irrelevant to me.” He continued, “The whole thing is going to crash down on everybody and destroy everybody in sight. It will be a massacre if I don’t get what I want.

What followed was a monster match of hearsay, slander, and false allegations. Don Ray, one of the first reporters in LA at the time of the allegations, commented on the story’s coverage: “I watched this story go away like a freight train.” One tabloid – I couldn’t even gather the audacity to consider it an article – I found from 1993 shared so many false and unchecked reports that it was almost laughable. (See here.) Jackson later ended up paying Chandler a huge amount of money due to advice that was given to him based on his lawyers and legal team at the time; in fact in a 1995 interview with Diane Sawyer and his then-wife Lisa Marie Presley, he admitted that he decided to settle because of personal issues going on at the time and he didn’t want his career to be hindered. Repeatedly, up until 2009, lies were spread about who the young boy was, a book was published by Victor Gutierrez in 1997 full of pedophilic fantasies (which I refuse to name) entailed gross depictions of sex between Jordan and Jackson, Ray Chandler, Evan’s brother, published a salacious book detailing Jackson and Jordan’s sexual relationship (Father of the Year, amirite!?) Long story short, this single false allegation ended up branding Jackson in the category as a “child molesters” or “pedophile” to the general public. In fact, my first introductions to Michael Jackson was that he “bleached his skin”, and that he was a pedophile. In a way, I want to travel back in time so I can see what in the world the people who were teenagers in the 90s saw when it came to Jackson’s stardom. But my story here is that Evan got what he wanted. He got the money he wanted. But in the end of his long and constructed plan, he lost his son, a valuable friend, and an opportunity to redeem a broken reputation as a piss poor dentist. His son ended up requesting an emancipation from both of his parents and never spoke to his parents again, besides the restraining order he put on his father some years ago after his father attacked him with a dumbbell. (He then later committed suicide in 2009, 4 months after Michael’s death.)

I want to conclude this article by sharing that for a number of years, the narrative around Jackson is that he is a huge boy-lover who was grotesquely involved in pedophilia and used his company to lure young innocent children in to become abused. I think the moral of this retelling of the 1993 allegations is that Jackson’s 2004 and 2013 allegations can all be traced back to the 1993 allegations. And if the 1993 allegations have been proven as false as they have so many times, then it’s only true that the 2004 and 2013 allegations have nothing worth standing on when it comes to truth. I am writing this, not from a stance as a fan, but as a stance of someone who loves the truth and compassion for Jackson. Yes, his life was something I personally do not want and desire, but still, Jackson was a human being who had many issues and attempted to heal the wounds created in his childhood in very bizarre ways. Hanging with young children and their families and becoming friends too easily with people he should have been wary of was one of those bizarre ways, not pedophilia.

One thing I’d like to leave you with is this quote that Jackson said in reference to truth: “lies run sprints, but truth runs marathons.” Truth is always consistent, over days, months, years, even centuries. nd the truth will always be discovered no matter how many times someone tries to hide it or smother it. But in this case and alarmingly a lot of other cases involving integrity, the truth was not firstly presented nor reported. One thing I’ve definitely learned from studying Michael Jackson and celebrities in general is that the truth doesn’t seem to matter anymore. Sometimes the celebrity is a victim and sometimes the celebrity is victimizing something or someone. It’s an interesting concept to keep up with, but I assume it’s a part of the human nature we have.

So, in conclusion, Michael Jackson was not a pedophile. There you go. You can feel free to enjoy his music, because I know I will. You’re welcome.

Here are my full list of sources that helped me create this article:

Square One documentary

Was Michael Jackson Framed 1994 article written by Mary Fisher

MJCast podcast episode about the MJ allegations

Michael Jackson Case For Innocence Podcast (they’re awesome!)

It’s good to be back, baby.

Hey my lovely snailheads.

I hope that didn’t offend you.

Anyway, I am back from my schooling stuff, and I am NOT free to write as much as I’d like.

I have approximately a week until school starts again. However, this time I will not be taking a break to focus on school and my students and the like. This time around, I will be focusing on writing more long-form content and specifying my niche from writing about “everything” to writing specifically about investigations that involve lots of book reading, research, and discovering the truth. (Don’t worry, they’ll be fun!)

This will include writing about movies, music, musical artists, podcasts, etc.) And because of the long-term content, I will make my posts ready for publication at least twice a month.

Thank you all for joining me in this blogging journey and being with me upon my return. My first post for August will be out by the end of the week! It will be about a certain King of Pop fellow. Here is a reference blog post if you’d like to get more of a background on my thoughts about the certain fellow four years ago.)

See you on August 31st,

Shanedra

*edit: I changed once a month to twice a month.

It’s Teacher’s Appreciation week!!

I want to write this post to say thank you to the parents, the teachers, and other people who teach our children and provide education for them regularly. Without you all doing your job, we wouldn’t know where we’d be!

Enjoy your week!

I will be posting a picture and something I enjoy each day. Here’s the first one:

One thing I enjoy is the students creativity!! (Here they are putting dirt in a box and saying they are making dinner.)

NaNoWrimo quote (bonus day?): Neil Gaiman

Look. April was a long month for me. I did not calculate properly know that there was an extra Sunday in April (ironically the last Sunday.)

So I’ve got a nice, juicy and tasty quote for you on this last day of Camp NaNoWrimo.

This is how you do it: you sir down at the keyboard and you put one word after another until it’s done. It’s that easy, and that hard.

Neil Gaiman

And there you have it, folks. I hope you all do very well in your book and in future endeavors!!!

Shanedra

See you next week for teacher’s appreciation week!

NaNoWrimo writing quote: the Bible

Yes, the good ol’ original book of not just iconic stories and lessons, but a living and refreshing piece of literature that leaves me absolutely speechless everytime I learn new things about it.

“Thus says the Lord, the God of Israel, ‘Write all the words which I have spoken to you in a book.”‘

Jeremiah 30:2

There ya go. God supports writing and He always has. He designed us to be writers, all of us. (Your memory is a lot better when you write something down rather than not writing it.)

We’ve got one more week left! Are you almost done with your novel or project? Comment below!

Are you participating in NaNoWrimo?

Hello fluffballs!

I am back and ready to talk about one of my favorite and most stressful writing events ever — National Novel Writing Month.

But it’s not November…yet…so April and July are what is known as Camp NaNoWrimo, where you still use the entire month to finish that book, project, whatever it is you’re working on.

I want to drop some inspiring quotes to help whomever is participating in this month’s glorious camp, or if you’re just reading along, you can enjoy a nice dose of wisdom from some of history’s greatest word artists.

Today’s quote is by the famous Toni Morrison. (I just bought one of her books from the library for 50 cents.)

If there’s a book you want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it.

Toni Morrison

Happy Easter and see you next week!

Michael Jackson’s Thriller (40th anniversary edition): my thoughts

A while ago, I was on Spotify and got a notification that a new MJ album dropped.

I clicked on it without hesitation.

To my surprise, I had already heard all the new songs. I just never listened to the new remixes and the demo versions of the songs.

So overall, my opinion on this album is that it’s a timeless classic, obviously, and because of the sensitiveness of this being a work of art performed by none other than Michael Jackson, there will be little to no criticism allowed.

The album cover is simple but mesmerizing.

I haven’t had a chance to see this baby in real life (when is the last time someone has actually purchased a CD anyway), but I hope it has holographic sprinkles everywhere. It matches the flair that MJ had during this impeccable era—straight down with songs like Billie Jean and Thriller itself. MJ was truly that guy.

It was nice to hear the oldies again in that new remastered sound

I’ve always been a Human Nature, Lady in my Life and The Girl is Mine type of girl. So hearing these soft ballads with some quality sounding earphones made the experience even more better. However, this album reintroduced Sunset Driver, originally introduced in his compilation album The Ultimate Collection, the longer version of Human Nature, and some demos. Although some of them were quite bizarre (non-understandable words) they still had a wonderful sound to them.

What did you think? Comment below!

Why I am proud to be a woman.

International Women’s Day was March 8th, and because of the hectic wonderful chaos going on at work, I didn’t have time to blog about being a woman and how much I value being born one.

I know the definition of women is starting to change falsely, but it’s important to note that being a woman is something that you can’t get surgery to obtain. It’s something you’re born with, and it’s something you can never change. It’s what helps define you as a human. (Here’s a correct definition)

Now I know I had 0 control over the gender I was born with, but I appreciate the fact that I was chosen to be a woman. As a woman, I have the ability to feel and be strong, I can persevere, and because of my acceptance of being a woman, I am starting to enjoy it and also better appreciate men. Isn’t that funny? I think that’s interesting that accepting myself as a woman has helped me better appreciate men.

I think one thing I value so much about being a woman is the fact that I can hold life inside of me. I have the ability to get pregnant and give birth to a child. I find this absolutely fascinating and so wonderful.

I think being a woman is something to be proud of. I am glad that I wasn’t born anything else! Yes it comes with things that are quite uncomfortable but I absolutely wouldn’t prefer anything else.

Happy (late) International Women’s Day!